Is it rape if I have "consensual" sex with my boyfriend (who was very manipulative in general) and then a year later, realize that he kind of had me brainwashed throughout the whole relationship, and none of our sex was truly consensual? I don't believe that yes = yes in that case.
Anonymous

Yeah I don’t know exactly what he did but it definitely sounds non-consensual.  I’m sorry that happened to you and I’m glad you got out of it.

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    Ahahahahahah. It’s not rape you fucking moron it’s just a mistake for a person being dumb. Did I get ‘scammed’ when I...
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    i’m laughing so hard how can two people be so stupid
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    So now the issue is not that anon has decided they “regret” the sex, it’s that they might be lying. Please, try to keep...
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    Breaking news everyone, regret sex now equals rape. God fucking dammit I hate this website.
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    Yeah, you’ve got anon’s side. There are 2 sides to every story. Yet again…you prove you just don’t get it.
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  15. tryingtomakesenseofpeople reblogged this from misandry-mermaid and added:
    So apparently consensual sex is rape if years later you’ve realized that you were “brainwashed” during it. -_-
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    I hate when people do this, I’ve had sex that I regret and will probably always regret but I know it wasn’t rape. I...
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    I keep hoping misandry-mermaid is a troll. Though that doesn’t explain away the dozens of likes her posts generate.
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    Ugh
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    ROFL
  20. dejaliciouss said: Far too many women share this experience myself included.