Anon asks:


(keep anon!) i just broke up with someone because i didn’t have feelings for them anymore and a lot of people have been telling me that i’m an asshole because i left her. i know thats not true and i shouldn’t be expected to stay in relationships and continue having sex with someone that i do not want to be with. but its making me feel pretty awful. i was hoping you might have some thoughts about it or your followers might have some comments about it too. i’m a transguy and my ex is a cisgirl. ty

You have every right not to date someone who you don’t want to date.  Staying in a relationship that you aren’t happy in is UNHEALTHY.  Anyone who shames or guilts you for getting out of an unhappy relationship is idealistic to the point of delusion, is basically advocating for your voluntary misery, and should be cut out of your life pronto.

Anon asks:

(keep anon!) i just broke up with someone because i didn’t have feelings for them anymore and a lot of people have been telling me that i’m an asshole because i left her. i know thats not true and i shouldn’t be expected to stay in relationships and continue having sex with someone that i do not want to be with. but its making me feel pretty awful. i was hoping you might have some thoughts about it or your followers might have some comments about it too. i’m a transguy and my ex is a cisgirl. ty
You have every right not to date someone who you don’t want to date.  Staying in a relationship that you aren’t happy in is UNHEALTHY.  Anyone who shames or guilts you for getting out of an unhappy relationship is idealistic to the point of delusion, is basically advocating for your voluntary misery, and should be cut out of your life pronto.
  1. harleyanncarter said: You kept that shit on the real and you handled it in a respectful way. If people mad, then they can get over it tbh because its wayy better than cheating.
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